Guest Blogger – Anonymously Autistic

I’ve been craving to have other writers to share their work on my blog. Iam happy to have guest bloggers. This blog post is written by Anonymously Autistic who holds the copyright for the blog post.

Click the link to read the article and read the interesting comments as well.

https://anonymouslyautistic.net/2016/10/18/the-mask-of-normality-hiding-my-true-self-an-aspergers-conundrum/ 

THE MASK OF NORMALITY – HIDING MY TRUE SELF (AN ASPERGER’S CONUNDRUM)

I’ve been talking a lot about passing and invisible disabilities over the past few months.

As Alyssa said – people don’t think I am Autistic because I can come off as “articulate, well adjusted, and extremely capable”.

I come off as a great problem solver, a bright woman, who is good at finding difficult solutions that others often miss. Certainly I can’t be Autistic.

All my anxiety is behind the scenes. Why? Well do you typically go around advertising all of your difficulties to the world do you (other than online)?

My disabilities and weaknesses are invisible but so are my strengths. At the same time all of my strengths and talents also remain hidden, due to self praise being interpreted as bragging.

I am a conundrum – a mix of invisible skills and invisible disabilities. Outwardly normal, trying to fill a role that I was not built for.

Acting normal is a skill. I am HIGHLY skilled at “passing” but doing so drains my batteries rapidly and requires extra recharge and recovery time. The costs on my mental health are not worth it.

It’s time to take off the mask and ask for mental health awareness centered in acceptance.

Alyssa Huber – The Life of an Aspie is an AMAZING YouTube channel. I can take NO credit for her video but PLEASE check out her channel for more great content.

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