Random thoughts

DAYANAND BORHUDE 1Click by my most lovely friend Dayanand Borhude. Thanks dear!!

Do the very thing that you don’t FEEL like doing. Beyond this ‘NO’ lies your creativity and the will to change the status-quo.

Spend time with family and friends. Unwind and rejuvenate. There is a lot of positive energy within you that gets triggered when you spend time with your loved ones. Love is a special feeling that everyone needs in their life.

Vincent Van Gogh was never appreciated while he was alive. Suffered a painful life. You can read ‘Lust for Life’ till a point of time but, beyond that it becomes unbearable to even read about his life. I often wonder how did he bear so much of pain?

No one pulls you down. Its your thoughts that pull you down. Be mindful about what you say to yourself. Think positive, seek positive, talk positive and be positive.

When someone is posing a challenge to you; mental, physical or emotional, be thankful to that person. He/she is only making you patient. Thank-you!!

Presently I feel I might lose my sanity!! On the borderline, if I cross it I would lose myself.

What is sanity? Being rational,
Being cut-throat, shrewd, rude, insulting, pulling someone down, being smart in the society, not caring for the other person. Then I want to leave this world as an insane person!!

Why does my mind oscillate so much?


photo essay #76: Moscow I, Russia

Fundamental right

The fundamental right of an individual is being yourself and if someone is trying to change that don’t accept it.

Also, you have the right to express yourself. No one can stop you from doing that. If you don’t have that freedom, fight for it – in your own way- with your own weapons.

Change isn’t easy, resistance is immense. Change is either slow or like a hurricane.

Choose your path, be firm and keep walking.


Inspiring Stories- Kushal Dasgupta

Way back in 1802, William Wordsworth said, “Child is the father of man”. Even today this phrase is true.  The present generation is surely smarter and creative. Kushal Dasgupta is one such young lad whose grit and determination will inspire us.

Interview with Kushal Dasgupta:

Rashmi: Before we getting into your achievements, we would want to know about your dream?

Kushal: Hi, I’m Kushal, Kushal Dasgupta. I am pursuing my Intermediate Second year and a Freelancer Photographer by passion. I’m a Musician and tech Savvy too. Thank-you so much for these beautiful questions.

My dream is to collaborate with my brother (Sai Kaustav whom we interviewed around a year back) and father to start a new firm through which limitless creativity can be produced.

There will be unlimited creations in the form of graphic designing, film making, music composing, directing, hosting and many more stuff, which can benefit people the way they need. With the help of our creative minds, I would like to upgrade the mindsets of present time and bring about smiles on the faces of people as getting permanent happiness is everyone’s dream and ultimate goal.



Rashmi: How do you aim to achieve your dream?

Kushal: After completing my intermediate, I am planning to do smart education, so that I can start working on my dream projects simultaneously with my main career. Now a days, if you can multi-task, you will be identified easily. And to pursue my dream I need to complete many things productively and efficiently so that my way towards my goal becomes smoother. Everyone has their own ways to aim their dreams. And my aim is to show those people how creatively you can reach your purpose and meet your goal. That’s a long term process still with all of your blessings, I will surely achieve success.


Rashmi: I have heard from your brother that you hold two World Records and one National record. Can you share something more about these achievements.

Kushal: Since I was studying from hostel, during Sundays when I got a chance to meet my parents, I asked them to bring my laptop, so that I can be updated with all news and regular stuff. My parents asked me whether I am able to operate multi devices together. Since I was tech savvy from my childhood, I replied them positively by thinking to give it a try. So this summer vacation 2018, when I came home for two months, I attempted a new record. As a result I made the new record of completing 10 different tasks on 10 different electronic devices in 3 minutes 29 Seconds only.


I could not believe myself first but, I was successful in making a new record and entered into 2 World Records, 2 National Records and 1 Asian Record recently.

My future ambition is to upgrade the rural areas of India technologically with the awareness of newly updated devices and skills.

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Rashmi: What keeps you going and who inspires you the most?

Kushal: I was inspired by my elder brother’s journey who is a 90% differently abled, wheelchair warrior and a global icon in leadership traits. He always motivates me to go ahead and try things out of the box. Its my parents support too, which always encouraged me to be on top of my chosen fields. I feel its very important to get their blessings as their guidance and experiences make my path more easier to reach my goal soon. Being inspired by them, I thought about trying something unique, which can inspire other young people around. So I achieved a new record on electronic devices.


Rashmi: What should be the most important thing for our youth today and how they can shape India’s future?

Kushal: I feel the most important thing for the youth is to utilise their time productively. I would like to motivate other young students to pursue their passion, besides their main stream career as we all have limited time. They must never leave their passions aside. Along with their passions and their interests, they can continue growing in their chosen field. We need not confuse our dream, degree or hobby with our career prospects. Play to your passion also, not only your strengths. If you are lucky enough to have the two overlap then great.


But, we must bear in mind that with the right career there will always be time for the things you enjoy, regardless of how much you have studied.


Nor war, nor peace


Image: @ the Kala Ghoda Fest, 2016, Mumbai, India

Nor war, nor peace

A barrage of thoughts distract and heckle my mind,
Thoughts pulling me and fighting for my attention,
Pulling me in different directions.

These racing thoughts are maddening,
When you step in front of me, suddenly,
And hold me tight.
I stand still without a fight.
Not an iota of restlessness now.

Then again as I settle into this divinity.
Thoughts again knock me down and I shirk you away
To depart from you.

The whole day passes with this hide and seek.
When the day ends with the realization that nothing is permanent;
Nor war, nor peace!!!
© Copyright 2018 Rashmi S. Malapur All rights reserved.

Not Lost In Translation: A Curious Language Anecdote

Interesting things happen when we write. Language coincidence.

Learn Fun Facts


Vladimir Nabokov

Vladimir Nabokov, in his 1962 novel Pale Fire, related a remarkable, albeit probably apocryphal, Russian language anecdote. The story went that a newspaper which covered the coronation ceremony of a Tsar “accidentally” misprinted “корона” (korona) (crown) as “ворона” (vorona) (crow). The following day, the newspaper apologized for the error and promptly “corrected” it. However, the word was misprinted once again as “корова” (korova) (cow).

According to Nabokov, “The artistic correlation between the crown-crow-cow series and the Russian koronavoronakorova series is something that would have, I am sure, enraptured my poet.” He also believed that the probability of having a language coincidence like this is so minuscule that it may as well elude computation.

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WordPress Camp 2018 – Mumbai

WordPress Camp 2018: The place to be

I had a delightful time on 17th March, 2018. No, I am not talking about watching a movie or partying. I am referring to the Word Camp 2018 organized by WordPress/ Automattic.

The venue was Infinite Corridor, Academic Section, IIT Powai, Mumbai, Maharashtra, India

I attended two session; both on writing.

The first session was on ‘To do list to follow when you get into freelance writing’ by Fairy Dharawat

The second session was a workshop on Story Telling by Dhara Kothari



To begin with Fairy discussed about

  • How to start as a freelance writer?
  • You need to have clients:

Before you launch yourself as a freelance writer ensure that you have enough clients. Otherwise it would turn out that you’ve begun as a freelance writer and you don’t have much work to do nor do you earn much.

  • Ask, sometimes even beg:

You have to get in touch with everyone who you know can hire you for writing assignments. Get into the habit of calling people and informing them that you are a freelance writer now and you need work. I know it feels as if you are begging but, that is how you will get work. Just network extensively.

  • Network:
  • How will you network and get in touch with people?

Call up your previous bosses and get connected to them through social media, especially through LinkedIn. It’s a professional networking site and you are bound to get some assignments through LinkedIn, which provides a premium offer for a month which is totally free and you should certainly avail to it.

Attend conferences and meets like Word Camp. Be in touch with people no matter how much you dislike socializing.

  • Learn to write great messages:

When you write messages show interest in the work of the person you are connecting with. Hit a connect by appreciating people and try to know more about them. Gradually, you can share that you are a freelance writer and you are searching for assignments.

Writing great messages in an art and if you wish your business to grow, learn it.

  • Building relationships and maintaining them:

You are writer, so sometimes treating this as a business is difficult. But, you have to, if you want to survive and grow as a freelance writer, build relationships and maintain them.

  • Meet people:

Keep meeting a lot of people and know what they are doing presently. You never know, work might come your way through them. Also, meet online friends and stay connected with people always.

  • Two vital questions to ask yourself:

Before you choose freelance assignment ask these two questions to yourself:

  • Can I write what clients are asking for?

Know your strengths; can you write technical or creative stuff? There might be times when you are expected to write on technical topics but, do you have the skills to write technically?

  • How much time you are dedicating for the assignment?

Calculate how much time you are going to dedicate to the assignment.

  • Learn to say ‘no’:

When work comes your way, its tempting to take it up. But, its wiser to consider if you have the skills to justify the kind of writing you are expected to do. So learn to say ‘no’.

  • Things to know about your client:
  • Is the client going to be flexible about the timeline and going to adjust to you?
  • Will the client be available to answer your doubts?
  • Be assertive:

Often clients think that since you work from home, the work will be delivered soon or according to their timeline. But, you have to clarify that you are working on multiple projects and you have to fit things into a certain time frame. So be assertive to demonstrate to them that content will not be available on urgent basis.


Be sure to ask for an advance before starting to work. Ideally ask for 50% advance. If that is not acceptable ask for atleast 25%. Be firm about this and safeguard your interest. There are chances that you won’t get paid, but don’t be demotivated in this case.

Its good to work with people you know or if you are working with someone you don’t know its best to develop a great relationship with them or probably have a contract signed.


Two things you need to keep in mind:

  • The time and efforts you will require to complete the assignment.
  • Does the content expected to deliver match your skill and talent?
  • The brand – which brand you are working for? If it’s a prestigious brand you should charge more.
  • Ask how much people in your industry charge for the kind of work you are doing?

Prepare a to do list every month:

  • To do list per month:
  • Workshops you attended?
  • How many people you met at the workshop?
  • Emails and messages sent to people to collaborate and request for assignments.
  • People and friends, you met

Remember guys, map your energy and replenish it by spending time with your friends and family. Because, often freelancers work a lot.


Story telling workshop by Dhara Kothari

After the to do lists on freelance writing, Dhara Kothari an extremely experienced writer held a workshop on story telling.

She emphasized on the purpose and uses of story telling through two games that she played with the audience. It was an extremely interactive session and the audience kept asking for more.

She said that storytelling is with humans since ancient times and it is used to convey a message or a moral.

She had cards that had pictures on it and someone from the audience came forth to pick three of them and connect them to tell a story. Interestingly, a wonderful story got woven in the process.

Also, she initiated a story by mentioning two lines and the audiences bit by bit carried it forward to give it a fabulous end. Story telling is fun, entertaining and you also get to unearth your creativity through it.

Through a story you can convey thoughts and sometimes convince others of your thoughts and ideas. You can get your point through convincingly and it also grabs the attention of audiences.

Writing is my passion and both the sessions were focused on it. One was more on the practical aspect of it and the another on creativity. Both the session beautifully balanced passion and practicality of being a writer.

© Copyright 2018 Rashmi S. Malapur All rights reserved.

Life is a journey

Image: Western Railway, Mumbai, India

People will always try to take advantage of you. If you can’t do certain things be clear that you can’t do them.

Otherwise compromising will only increase your frustration. If you do stuff to make others happy it’s great but you should be happy too.

People will want to see you unhappy don’t bother. You be happy, irrespective of what others think.

Always have some special people in your life who motivate, understand and love you with all your imperfections.

There are no destinations in life. Enjoy the journey… Love life

A51. Constitution of Aditya Solanki

I love this list… by Aditya Solanki… 🙂


Article 1

Treat everyone equally. Be humble, respectful and honest with and to everyone.

Article 2

Speak less, listen more.

Article 3

Live in the moment, be in the now, feel deeply and make mistakes.

Article 4

Be conscious of how you’re spending your time and money. Choose investment over expenditure.

Article 5

Learn daily, spend time with yourself, build good habits and be consistent.

Article 6

Sleep enough, just enough! Take care of your body and mind. Listen to your heart. If you cannot hear the voice of your heart, shut the noises around and in you.

Article 7

Shine and let your brightness give light to others. See the good in people and invest in them.

Article 8

Push yourself in situations which can make you feel your heart beating against your chest: situations in which you feel excited and afraid at the same time. Be uncomfortable.

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Meeting beyond horizon


Click: Carter Road, Bandra, Mumbai, India

I close my eyes to reminiscence the time we spent together,

I don’t remember when we met nor do I care about it.

Beyond the boundaries of this world- imaginary and real,

Am away from the disdainful rules set by the world.

I immerse in you and naturally we unite,

This is the beginning of a new journey.

Your trust in me and mine in you should grow with each passing day,

Belief is the edifice of this happy journey to eternity.

The world worships you with folded hands,

But I dwell in you like an innocent child.

© Copyright 2018 Rashmi S. Malapur All rights reserved.